Hi Buddies,
I hope everybody is doing fantastic. Do you know why you are so? If you are not sure let us try to make it clear, come with me through this post.
Each of us will have different prospect when we are about to commit for anything (work, help etc.) but everybody will have choices made by ourself to complete it. Now the big question that comes to our mind before any commitment how will we decide our choices? For example Sometime we will predict that we will have a hectic work in office tomorrow. To face that we will plan the work based on the priority and solve it. If you ask me what I will do in this occasion, I will say that "better take leave" (just for fun).
So if you have any difficult situation to come across don't worry, start spending at-least 30 minutes of time to yourself everyday, if you do so I assure that you never cross a situation feeling uncomfortable or not completing any task (even it is big or small) at the end of the day. Now we know that we have to spend time for ourself to be successful. What will be the next question that comes to you mind? Might be, when to spend that time in morning or afternoon or evening or night. Don't make it much complicate by thinking like this, because you are not going to wait for anybody's appointment. So spend time when you feel comfortable.
Usually I will spend time to myself during, I do my walking in early morning or whenever I am walking alone. Most my friends have seen me hearing to songs using earphone but actually I will be talking to myself most of the time when I have my earphone. I will forget the words that I have used in the conversation (in least occasion) which I had myself, after making a conclusion or choices (according to this blog) and straight away start doing the action.
I have many sweet conversation with myself and few were
Occasion: Taking leave for attending an interview
My interview has been scheduled on weekday and I had office on the same day. Now it is up to me to decide to attend this interview or not. I know that I will not have any important work in office for a day, so I decided to take leave and attend the interview. Unfortunately I didn't clear the interview but that is secondary.
Occasion: First time conversation with girl in college (from such a strict college)
I know that I will get a chance to have conversation during the college break so, I prepared myself for the conversation before a day. How to start, how she will feel if I directly have a conversation, what will happen if we got caught, how my friends will react for it, can I share that with my friends? like this I had loads of questions in-front of me. Some how I decided that don't search for a answer now let me see whatever happens. I had a successful face to face conversation (not appropriately). Don't ask me what is the conversation.
Occasion: Arranging for a room mate birthday celebration without his knowledge
As I mentioned in my earlier conversation (blog) before I got my bike, I used to travel for a long time in a bus and have to walk for 20 minutes to reach my room. I know that tomorrow will be my friend birthday, so I was talking to myself when I was walking in the road in low voice to myself how to arrange and things to arrange with out using earphone. I noticed that a gang is laughing at me by seeing that I am talking something but I am alone. I managed to grab my earphone and used that. (so before talking to yourself make some arrangement if you want to be in the safer side).
I may not be successful in all the occasion when I had a conversation to myself to come up with a plan and did something but I am happy that I know most of my strengths and weakness. As the days passed, I can a lot of difference in me after I start spending some time to myself. So guys, I am eagerly waiting for your comments after spending a time to yourself.
Please provide your feedback because we have to see from different prospective as well.
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Gups.
I hope everybody is doing fantastic. Do you know why you are so? If you are not sure let us try to make it clear, come with me through this post.
Each of us will have different prospect when we are about to commit for anything (work, help etc.) but everybody will have choices made by ourself to complete it. Now the big question that comes to our mind before any commitment how will we decide our choices? For example Sometime we will predict that we will have a hectic work in office tomorrow. To face that we will plan the work based on the priority and solve it. If you ask me what I will do in this occasion, I will say that "better take leave" (just for fun).
So if you have any difficult situation to come across don't worry, start spending at-least 30 minutes of time to yourself everyday, if you do so I assure that you never cross a situation feeling uncomfortable or not completing any task (even it is big or small) at the end of the day. Now we know that we have to spend time for ourself to be successful. What will be the next question that comes to you mind? Might be, when to spend that time in morning or afternoon or evening or night. Don't make it much complicate by thinking like this, because you are not going to wait for anybody's appointment. So spend time when you feel comfortable.
Usually I will spend time to myself during, I do my walking in early morning or whenever I am walking alone. Most my friends have seen me hearing to songs using earphone but actually I will be talking to myself most of the time when I have my earphone. I will forget the words that I have used in the conversation (in least occasion) which I had myself, after making a conclusion or choices (according to this blog) and straight away start doing the action.
I have many sweet conversation with myself and few were
Occasion: Taking leave for attending an interview
My interview has been scheduled on weekday and I had office on the same day. Now it is up to me to decide to attend this interview or not. I know that I will not have any important work in office for a day, so I decided to take leave and attend the interview. Unfortunately I didn't clear the interview but that is secondary.
I know that I will get a chance to have conversation during the college break so, I prepared myself for the conversation before a day. How to start, how she will feel if I directly have a conversation, what will happen if we got caught, how my friends will react for it, can I share that with my friends? like this I had loads of questions in-front of me. Some how I decided that don't search for a answer now let me see whatever happens. I had a successful face to face conversation (not appropriately). Don't ask me what is the conversation.
Occasion: Arranging for a room mate birthday celebration without his knowledge
As I mentioned in my earlier conversation (blog) before I got my bike, I used to travel for a long time in a bus and have to walk for 20 minutes to reach my room. I know that tomorrow will be my friend birthday, so I was talking to myself when I was walking in the road in low voice to myself how to arrange and things to arrange with out using earphone. I noticed that a gang is laughing at me by seeing that I am talking something but I am alone. I managed to grab my earphone and used that. (so before talking to yourself make some arrangement if you want to be in the safer side).
I may not be successful in all the occasion when I had a conversation to myself to come up with a plan and did something but I am happy that I know most of my strengths and weakness. As the days passed, I can a lot of difference in me after I start spending some time to myself. So guys, I am eagerly waiting for your comments after spending a time to yourself.
Please provide your feedback because we have to see from different prospective as well.
-
Gups.
Good one da....keep it up
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